Swirling thoughts.

Hi everyone!

Im back! I wonder if anyone has any problems of swirling thoughts today? Before the thought finishes,another interferes. This ends up in having no conclusion after thinking for sometime. lol! Okay, maybe there is no such things as swirling thoughts, I just defined it in my own terms. Hahaha.

Anyway, 1st thought: Does childishness dissappear with time? And i am not talking about child-like behaviour obviously, the mental processes. People think in various,different manners, I respect that. Thus, i always try not to make judgements before putting myself in the person's shoes. However, some people are really asking for it with their stupid behaviour. Then, i kind of think about it for a little while more and I realised that this behaviour can't be labelled as childishness, but labelled as their personality.

The saying goes that, a leopard never changes it's spots. This means that from young,this behaviour can continue till a ripe old age if nothing is done right?

Well, if the person acknowledges the issue and tries to amend it. What is the probability of them suceeding in changing this behaviour? Realistically, the probability of them reverting is very high, like an addiction. When you're used to the particular lifestyle and have been doing it all the time, that is most likely the case. But I believe people should be given chances. One time wrong, try again, still wrong, try another time. It just depends on how much times the person gives you right?

On the other hand, the person giving chances will be very tired, and maybe hurt as well. Honestly, I have been in both ends. I have been hurt by people, as I have spoken before.And, I have hurt other people too.

Fragile situation right? We will never know what is the right answer but I will always try to be the best person I can be. I know, people usually don't see it. I am defensive over myself as well. There are only my friends and family that I would tend to display it to. Haha!